For Mother's Day, I asked my kids to let me get a picture of all of them together. It was mid-day and a bit too bright, even in the shade, but I love how these turned out.
I'm blessed to share my life with such great people!
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
I've really gotten out of the habit of blogging. For those who are hanging on my every word (someone? anyone?), I apologize. If it makes you feel any better, I've gotten pretty lazy with taking pictures too, using my blurry phone camera instead of my good one.
But so you know I haven't dropped off the face of the earth, here's a bit of what's going on in my world:
RUNNING
I'm still running and feeling great about it. I'm up to about 25 miles a week and the best part about it is that I'm getting faster -- a lot faster. I'm dropping seconds and minutes from my runs all the time and it feels great. My fastest 3 miler was at a 9:30 pace. I ran my second half marathon on Saturday and though I knew I could do better than my 2:30 from six weeks ago, I wasn't sure it was possible to get a 2:20 (10:40 pace). My longer runs have gotten faster, but I'd never done less than 11:05 pace on them so I figured I'd shoot for a 2:25 or so and see how it went.
Next up for me is running the Wasatch Back Ragnar with a friend next week. I've got two killer legs -- one drops 1200 feet in just 3 miles of its 7 miles, another gains over a thousand in 8 miles -- then one easy final leg. It should be fun.
Then I plan to finish off the summer with the Hobble Creek Half in August. It's ten weeks away and I'm excited to see how much I can improve in that time.
My running partner (and Ragnar friend) moved away a month ago and I miss having conversation during my long runs. The best part of running, though, is the scenery I get to enjoy while I do it:
FITNESS
The frustrating thing is that though I'm gaining fitness, I really haven't lost much of the weight I gained last fall when I had my thyroid problems. I lost ten pounds the first few months of the year and while I've kept that off, I keep gaining and losing the next five pounds. I gave up on Weight Watchers a month ago because it wasn't working for me this time, but I've determined that I'm going to tackle this again and see what I can do in the next ten weeks. On the one hand, it's pretty amazing I can be 30 lbs overweight and able to run strong. On the other, I'd really, really like all that running to help me get slimmer. Not to mention, I'm sure I'll get faster when I'm not carrying around extra weight.
Many people have asked if I'm planning on another marathon this year. I'm not. I've decided to focus on the half marathon distance and improving my pace for now. I don't want to get injured like the last time I ran a marathon so I'm waiting until I have a stronger base and I've lost more weight before I build up to that distance again. II'm sure I'll be doing another marathon in the next few years.
SUMMER TRIP
We've had two fun weeks of summer and things are going so smoothly. We spent last week in Park City and while my husband had to stay home a good part of the week and my oldest was at girls camp, the rest of us had fun doing crafts, swimming, hiking, and going to the zoo.
SUMMER SCHEDULE
Our regular summer schedule is going well. I've divided the six oldest kids (ages 6 to 14) into three teams, with Lillian, Joey and Michael being the team leader and Allison, Sarah and Eliza being a helper. Each team has certain jobs each day. Each month, the team will change and the jobs will rotate. The kids will continue to have some individual jobs, such as five minute madness after scriptures and after meals, as well as their own room cleaning. Here is what each team is doing:
Team 1: Inspect bedrooms in the morning, make lunch, clean up lunch, then for zones in the afternoon, pick up mudroom, entryway, family office, and great room.
Team 2: Breakfast clean-up, then for zones in the afternoon, clean downstairs family room and toy area and clean up outside toys and bikes.
Team 3: Dinner planning and grocery lists every week, make dinner, and dinner clean up
I've been exercising at 6:30 or 6:45 in the morning, and then we have scriptures at 8:00. After scriptures and five minute madness, we get rooms cleaned and have breakfast in the morning before our morning activities.
MONDAY – Backyard Weeding + Forest Clearing
TUESDAY – Piano Lessons and Library
WEDNESDAY – Work Project (I have a different one on the calendar for each week)
THURSDAY – Horseback Riding
FRIDAY – Front & Side Yard Weeding + Lawn Mowed
SATURDAY – Family Work Day
After lunch, we have quiet time and naps for Cami (and usually me -- wish I didn't still need them), then an afternoon adventure. On one day, my husband is going to try to come home a bit early so we can go hiking. Two other days, we go swimming at the rec center and the other two days are open.
We've also set the family rule that no one over 8 can do any media activities until they've read for 15 minutes in the scriptures. We want to try to establish personal scripture study as a habit and goal for our family this summer. So far, it's working pretty well. We usually only have media during quiet time in the afternoon and then in the evening.
CONSTRUCTION
When we built our house, we did it a bit unconventionally. I wanted to have a second floor with the bedrooms arranged around a main gathering room, but when we got estimates on what it would cost to have that be an upper floor, it was out of our reach. We decided to put that idea to work in our basement area instead. We love our house and love having all the bedrooms in the basement. Because it's a walk-out basement with big windows and only two window wells, it doesn't feel much like a basement. It's nice and cool in the summer and we love using our fireplace in the winter.
In the place of a second floor bedroom area, we added on what is usually called "bonus space" in our upstairs. Because all the space is between the roof trusses that have to go on a house anyway, the builders estimated it would cost us about 40% of the price of regular finished space. So, we put it in and left it unfinished for the last six years.
But recently, we've been working on refinancing our house to a better rate and realized we needed it finished to get the appraisal we need for the best financing. So, for the last two weeks our house has been a construction zone. All the kids helped us move our storage out of there and my husband and Joey have worked a ton helping the electrician with his work and in trying to clean up and move things along. We've had HVAC guys and plumbers here and it's been a bit crazy. The drywallers showed up yesterday and will be here all week. When we're finished, we'll have a couple of bedrooms, two bathrooms and even a laundry area up there. We'll use one as a playroom (to become a library later on), one as a craft room and photography studio (exciting to contemplate, though I don't know what to buy for indoor lighting and that part might be a ways off). The other rooms will be for guests and eventually, a place for our college-age kids to live. We want to keep our kids close in proximity while they're young and since we have six bedrooms downstairs, we have enough space for them to stay put for now.
PRAYERS FOR JEN
My thoughts and prayers have been with my friend Jenifer Moss this past week. You may remember her from the wonderful guest post she wrote for me last fall. Jen delivered her eighth child, Benjamin, last Thursday via a planned C-section followed by a 10.5 hour operation to save Jen's life. She had a condition called placenta percreta, where the placenta grew through her uterus and spread through the rest of her organs. It is very dangerous because the placenta is so full of blood vessels that the risk of bleeding to death is high (a local woman died of this condition a month ago). Jen had good doctors and a ton of faith and chose to give her baby the gift of life (I love this post she wrote about her choice: Greater love).
I'm so happy and humbled that Jen is all right and on the road to recovery, though she has a lot to recover from. If you have a chance, please read her story and send up a prayer for her and her family.
But so you know I haven't dropped off the face of the earth, here's a bit of what's going on in my world:
RUNNING
I'm still running and feeling great about it. I'm up to about 25 miles a week and the best part about it is that I'm getting faster -- a lot faster. I'm dropping seconds and minutes from my runs all the time and it feels great. My fastest 3 miler was at a 9:30 pace. I ran my second half marathon on Saturday and though I knew I could do better than my 2:30 from six weeks ago, I wasn't sure it was possible to get a 2:20 (10:40 pace). My longer runs have gotten faster, but I'd never done less than 11:05 pace on them so I figured I'd shoot for a 2:25 or so and see how it went.
Ready to go at the start:
And, ringing the PR bell at the finish, with a time of 2:18! That's a 10:33 pace! I'm super proud. And yes, I know that pace is still slow for many, but for a gal who was used to running at the back of the pack, it feels awesome.
Next up for me is running the Wasatch Back Ragnar with a friend next week. I've got two killer legs -- one drops 1200 feet in just 3 miles of its 7 miles, another gains over a thousand in 8 miles -- then one easy final leg. It should be fun.
Then I plan to finish off the summer with the Hobble Creek Half in August. It's ten weeks away and I'm excited to see how much I can improve in that time.
My running partner (and Ragnar friend) moved away a month ago and I miss having conversation during my long runs. The best part of running, though, is the scenery I get to enjoy while I do it:
FITNESS
The frustrating thing is that though I'm gaining fitness, I really haven't lost much of the weight I gained last fall when I had my thyroid problems. I lost ten pounds the first few months of the year and while I've kept that off, I keep gaining and losing the next five pounds. I gave up on Weight Watchers a month ago because it wasn't working for me this time, but I've determined that I'm going to tackle this again and see what I can do in the next ten weeks. On the one hand, it's pretty amazing I can be 30 lbs overweight and able to run strong. On the other, I'd really, really like all that running to help me get slimmer. Not to mention, I'm sure I'll get faster when I'm not carrying around extra weight.
Many people have asked if I'm planning on another marathon this year. I'm not. I've decided to focus on the half marathon distance and improving my pace for now. I don't want to get injured like the last time I ran a marathon so I'm waiting until I have a stronger base and I've lost more weight before I build up to that distance again. II'm sure I'll be doing another marathon in the next few years.
SUMMER TRIP
We've had two fun weeks of summer and things are going so smoothly. We spent last week in Park City and while my husband had to stay home a good part of the week and my oldest was at girls camp, the rest of us had fun doing crafts, swimming, hiking, and going to the zoo.
SUMMER SCHEDULE
Our regular summer schedule is going well. I've divided the six oldest kids (ages 6 to 14) into three teams, with Lillian, Joey and Michael being the team leader and Allison, Sarah and Eliza being a helper. Each team has certain jobs each day. Each month, the team will change and the jobs will rotate. The kids will continue to have some individual jobs, such as five minute madness after scriptures and after meals, as well as their own room cleaning. Here is what each team is doing:
Team 1: Inspect bedrooms in the morning, make lunch, clean up lunch, then for zones in the afternoon, pick up mudroom, entryway, family office, and great room.
Team 2: Breakfast clean-up, then for zones in the afternoon, clean downstairs family room and toy area and clean up outside toys and bikes.
Team 3: Dinner planning and grocery lists every week, make dinner, and dinner clean up
I've been exercising at 6:30 or 6:45 in the morning, and then we have scriptures at 8:00. After scriptures and five minute madness, we get rooms cleaned and have breakfast in the morning before our morning activities.
MONDAY – Backyard Weeding + Forest Clearing
TUESDAY – Piano Lessons and Library
WEDNESDAY – Work Project (I have a different one on the calendar for each week)
THURSDAY – Horseback Riding
FRIDAY – Front & Side Yard Weeding + Lawn Mowed
SATURDAY – Family Work Day
After lunch, we have quiet time and naps for Cami (and usually me -- wish I didn't still need them), then an afternoon adventure. On one day, my husband is going to try to come home a bit early so we can go hiking. Two other days, we go swimming at the rec center and the other two days are open.
We've also set the family rule that no one over 8 can do any media activities until they've read for 15 minutes in the scriptures. We want to try to establish personal scripture study as a habit and goal for our family this summer. So far, it's working pretty well. We usually only have media during quiet time in the afternoon and then in the evening.
CONSTRUCTION
When we built our house, we did it a bit unconventionally. I wanted to have a second floor with the bedrooms arranged around a main gathering room, but when we got estimates on what it would cost to have that be an upper floor, it was out of our reach. We decided to put that idea to work in our basement area instead. We love our house and love having all the bedrooms in the basement. Because it's a walk-out basement with big windows and only two window wells, it doesn't feel much like a basement. It's nice and cool in the summer and we love using our fireplace in the winter.
In the place of a second floor bedroom area, we added on what is usually called "bonus space" in our upstairs. Because all the space is between the roof trusses that have to go on a house anyway, the builders estimated it would cost us about 40% of the price of regular finished space. So, we put it in and left it unfinished for the last six years.
But recently, we've been working on refinancing our house to a better rate and realized we needed it finished to get the appraisal we need for the best financing. So, for the last two weeks our house has been a construction zone. All the kids helped us move our storage out of there and my husband and Joey have worked a ton helping the electrician with his work and in trying to clean up and move things along. We've had HVAC guys and plumbers here and it's been a bit crazy. The drywallers showed up yesterday and will be here all week. When we're finished, we'll have a couple of bedrooms, two bathrooms and even a laundry area up there. We'll use one as a playroom (to become a library later on), one as a craft room and photography studio (exciting to contemplate, though I don't know what to buy for indoor lighting and that part might be a ways off). The other rooms will be for guests and eventually, a place for our college-age kids to live. We want to keep our kids close in proximity while they're young and since we have six bedrooms downstairs, we have enough space for them to stay put for now.
PRAYERS FOR JEN
My thoughts and prayers have been with my friend Jenifer Moss this past week. You may remember her from the wonderful guest post she wrote for me last fall. Jen delivered her eighth child, Benjamin, last Thursday via a planned C-section followed by a 10.5 hour operation to save Jen's life. She had a condition called placenta percreta, where the placenta grew through her uterus and spread through the rest of her organs. It is very dangerous because the placenta is so full of blood vessels that the risk of bleeding to death is high (a local woman died of this condition a month ago). Jen had good doctors and a ton of faith and chose to give her baby the gift of life (I love this post she wrote about her choice: Greater love).
I'm so happy and humbled that Jen is all right and on the road to recovery, though she has a lot to recover from. If you have a chance, please read her story and send up a prayer for her and her family.
Friday, May 17, 2013
I was thrilled to be asked to guest-post with several other wonderful women on Kathryn Skagg's blog last week in honor of Mother's Day.
Check it out here: Mothering with Strength, Power, and Personal Conviction
Or, if you're too lazy to go read through all of it, here's my short portion:
Also, a few weeks ago, I was privileged to spend one day at BYU Women's Conference. My good friend Cheryl Savage presented on Jesus Christ as a champion of Womanhood and Motherhood. Her presentation was WONDERFUL and the best part is, you can read it for yourself here. She begins by saying,
Check it out here: Mothering with Strength, Power, and Personal Conviction
Or, if you're too lazy to go read through all of it, here's my short portion:
This week, we celebrate what some of my younger children refer to as "Smother's Day." After the way some of them behaved at Church recently, jostling for the prime position on my lap, breaking my necklace, refusing to attend nursery without me there and then writhing on my lap refusing to engage with the other children for the next hour and a half, I felt just a bit smothered.
My great-grandmother was fond of saying, "Your children are your priceless possessions." She said it often throughout her life. In her later years, as her mind got more and more confused and scattered, this one phrase would stay constant. She said it to everyone multiple times a day, and one day when she said it to me, I heard her daughter and primary care-giver mutter under her breathe in exasperation, "I feel possessed."
Smothered and Possessed. That's the way of life when you're the primary care-taker and nurturer full-time. Tied down. Letting your talents lie dormant and losing yourself and your intellect in the stifling stagnant atmosphere of your own home.
Or so many teach in the world today. Success is measured in wealth, power, and prominence, and choosing to stay at home nurturing children brings none of those things. It is a quiet road with few honors and recognitions.
But it has much to offer, this road. The Savior has taught that the worth of one individual soul is great and His ministry was so often to the one. He has taught that when we minister and help the “least of these” we are really serving him. The truth is, my children are not objects to be possessed, they are souls to be nurtured.
As a mother of nine precious souls, I’ve learned what it is to minister. Each child I have is unique and wonderful and it is a privilege to work in partnership with God to create a home that helps them to reach their very best potential. I am a gardener growing the most precious of plants. It’s not an easy job. The work is tiring, the weeds never-ending, the sun and storms unrelenting at times. Sometimes (ok – often) the call of the work comes in the middle of the night. Hardest of all is that my plants take time to cultivate and on a day-to-day basis, it’s hard to see the progress I’m making. Being a mother is not convenient, it’s not easy, and the call of more prominence or prestige could cause me to neglect these tender plants. But the satisfaction of knowing that God’s hand is in my life, directing my labors and helping me meet the needs of his precious children, is the greatest reward of all.
So I’m happy to accept being smothered and possessed at times. It’s part of the package of being given the greatest job in the world, that of Mother.
(yep, definitely smothered!)
Also, a few weeks ago, I was privileged to spend one day at BYU Women's Conference. My good friend Cheryl Savage presented on Jesus Christ as a champion of Womanhood and Motherhood. Her presentation was WONDERFUL and the best part is, you can read it for yourself here. She begins by saying,
As you can see by the ages of my children, I am in the midst of what has been dubbed as "the trenches." I am in the midst of the messy, physically demanding years. From dawn to dusk, and even through the night, I am on call. I am nurturing and teaching. I am fighting off evil that would capture and harm my children. I am a soldier of epic proportions! I am in a war against Satan and the world. This is my stage and my season. I am a warrior!And it just gets better from there!
Friday, May 10, 2013
Thursday, May 9, 2013
I've had a lot on my mind and so much I want to write about and capture, yet the demands of my life, my health (sure wish I didn't still need a nap every day!), and my family prevent me from writing everything.
I read this yesterday and it resonated with how I feel about my kids growing up:
So much of my life feels the same from day to day and yet the years are short and I let too much slip me by without really appreciating it. One of the best parts about being a mother is creating relationships with unique and precious individuals. Just yesterday, I had these simple, fun, instructive, and wonderful moments:
* Cami laughs at me when I do yoga, contorts herself to imitate me, and climbs on me when I'm trying to do some poses.
* Harmony learned a fun song called "Four Hugs a Day" at preschool and she loves to sing it, but insists that it's "my song!" if anyone else tries to sing it. So I've told her that if I don't get my four hugs a day, then I get to sing the song all I want. Yesterday, as I was loading the car with four little girls, there was a bit of contention between Harmony and Katie, so I started singing the song to distract them. Harmony jumped out of the car and grabbed me in four tight quick hugs, "One, two, three, four, there!" she announced.
* here's a video of Harmony singing the song with her class. Check out her fancy dancing moves at the 1:00 mark:
* Harmony started singing "Head Shoulders Knees and Toes" yesterday and Katie threw a fit, insisting "That's MY song!"
* I took the four girls to the grocery store and Costco. We enjoyed banana smoothie samples and I told them we weren't buying cereal or the adorable poofy dresses they saw because they weren't at a good price. Eliza asked me questions like, "Is pumpkin pie healthy for you?" and "What about eating just sugar?" Katie insistently proclaimed to the others that churros "were SO!" healthy as they devoured them on the ride home. I asked them to share pieces with Cami. By the time we got home, her carseat was covered in small smushed bits of churro the others had overwhelmed her with. She's only got two hands, you know?
* Lillian watched the littlest girls after school while I ran six miles in 64 minutes, my fastest at that distance yet. Oh, and it was raining.
* I got out our Halloween costumes and helped Allison and Sarah find costumes for Rome day at school today.
* I lost my temper with a child who was complaining his/her punishment was unjust and that I loved everyone else more than them. We made up later.
* I taught Michael how to cut up pineapple and watermelon for a fruit salad to go with the simple crockpot chicken and rice I'd made.
* I got fed up with the messes in the family office and barked at three kids to clean up the books on the floor, the papers and art supplies. Of course, I got the "why do *I* have to do it?" in response. (See, my kids don't complain about their regularly assigned jobs, just the ones they view as "extra").
* Allison and Sarah decided to have a "wacky contest" with weird dress-ups. We decided Allison won.
* After the contest, Allison wrapped Allison's arm in toilet paper to make a fake cast and sling and then had everyone write their name on it.
* I got to read three little girls bedtime stories while an older girl listened from behind the couch.
* I had to call Michael back to the kitchen several times to make sure he followed through on REALLY cleaning the sink as part of his dish duties.
* Harmony and Katie threw a party in their room and played with ponies they'd snuck in instead of going to sleep. Katie threw a fit when I made her sleep on my bed instead of getting to sleep in her room with Harmony.
* Lillian came home from her violin lesson to announce that her teacher (a senior in high school) had gotten his mission call and was going to open it that night. Later, he announced on Facebook he's heading to Taiwan in August and will be in the same mission as his brother for some months. We're so happy for him and his family.
***
So there you go. Nothing especially profound to say about it all, except that I am privileged to be a mother and I'm grateful for my life.
I read this yesterday and it resonated with how I feel about my kids growing up:
Even now, time is clearly not our natural dimension. Thus it is that we are never really at home in time. Alternately, we find ourselves impatiently wishing to hasten the passage of time or to hold back the dawn. We can do neither, of course. Whereas the bird is at home in the air, we are clearly not at home in time—because we belong to eternity. Time, as much as any one thing, whispers to us that we are strangers here. If time were natural to us, why is it that we have so many clocks and wear wristwatches? (Neal A. Maxwell, Patience)
So much of my life feels the same from day to day and yet the years are short and I let too much slip me by without really appreciating it. One of the best parts about being a mother is creating relationships with unique and precious individuals. Just yesterday, I had these simple, fun, instructive, and wonderful moments:
* Cami laughs at me when I do yoga, contorts herself to imitate me, and climbs on me when I'm trying to do some poses.
* Harmony learned a fun song called "Four Hugs a Day" at preschool and she loves to sing it, but insists that it's "my song!" if anyone else tries to sing it. So I've told her that if I don't get my four hugs a day, then I get to sing the song all I want. Yesterday, as I was loading the car with four little girls, there was a bit of contention between Harmony and Katie, so I started singing the song to distract them. Harmony jumped out of the car and grabbed me in four tight quick hugs, "One, two, three, four, there!" she announced.
* here's a video of Harmony singing the song with her class. Check out her fancy dancing moves at the 1:00 mark:
* Harmony started singing "Head Shoulders Knees and Toes" yesterday and Katie threw a fit, insisting "That's MY song!"
* I took the four girls to the grocery store and Costco. We enjoyed banana smoothie samples and I told them we weren't buying cereal or the adorable poofy dresses they saw because they weren't at a good price. Eliza asked me questions like, "Is pumpkin pie healthy for you?" and "What about eating just sugar?" Katie insistently proclaimed to the others that churros "were SO!" healthy as they devoured them on the ride home. I asked them to share pieces with Cami. By the time we got home, her carseat was covered in small smushed bits of churro the others had overwhelmed her with. She's only got two hands, you know?
* Lillian watched the littlest girls after school while I ran six miles in 64 minutes, my fastest at that distance yet. Oh, and it was raining.
* I got out our Halloween costumes and helped Allison and Sarah find costumes for Rome day at school today.
* I lost my temper with a child who was complaining his/her punishment was unjust and that I loved everyone else more than them. We made up later.
* I taught Michael how to cut up pineapple and watermelon for a fruit salad to go with the simple crockpot chicken and rice I'd made.
* I got fed up with the messes in the family office and barked at three kids to clean up the books on the floor, the papers and art supplies. Of course, I got the "why do *I* have to do it?" in response. (See, my kids don't complain about their regularly assigned jobs, just the ones they view as "extra").
* Allison and Sarah decided to have a "wacky contest" with weird dress-ups. We decided Allison won.
* I got to read three little girls bedtime stories while an older girl listened from behind the couch.
* I had to call Michael back to the kitchen several times to make sure he followed through on REALLY cleaning the sink as part of his dish duties.
* Harmony and Katie threw a party in their room and played with ponies they'd snuck in instead of going to sleep. Katie threw a fit when I made her sleep on my bed instead of getting to sleep in her room with Harmony.
* Lillian came home from her violin lesson to announce that her teacher (a senior in high school) had gotten his mission call and was going to open it that night. Later, he announced on Facebook he's heading to Taiwan in August and will be in the same mission as his brother for some months. We're so happy for him and his family.
***
So there you go. Nothing especially profound to say about it all, except that I am privileged to be a mother and I'm grateful for my life.
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